Last week’s Facebook announcement of it’s universal “Like” button, and the discourse on privacy that followed, got me thinking again about my relationship with Facebook.
Facebook, I’ve got a funny feeling about you. There are plenty of companies I don’t trust, but Facebook – you’re in a unique position to know a lot about me. Yes, Google too – and I’ll say more on that in a minute.
On the one hand, you tempt me with the promise of a truly social web, extending my social graph across the internets like tentacles stretching far and wide. A web where I can meet my friends online wherever I go – start discussions, compare purchases – generally share activities, links, resources, sentiments – and benefit from recommendations which help me filter some of the noise.
On the other hand, I’m fearful that you’ll distribute all those connections, activities, behaviors, and patterns all over the web. I’m not the only one who’s worried. Look see:
Facebook’s eroding privacy policy timeline
Why it is too late to regulate Facebook
Facebook’s evil, genius plan to own your life
Facebook’s great betrayal
Okay, I get it. You went into it a$$ backwards. You started with a closed platform and have been backtracking ever since, to make (y)our UGC more public. You’re jealous of Twitter. Heck, your data isn’t being archived by the National Library of Congress!
I’m not naive. You have to make money to be a sustainable business. And, you’re going to make a lot of money with all our data. Why wouldn’t you? But that doesn’t mean I have to go along with all of this without a fight. Because ultimately, I just don’t trust you.
The simple thing that irks me to no end, and is the most obvious indication of a disingenuous approach:
I was looking through my privacy settings, recalling articles written in the past week about how to opt out of your new “instant personalization” feature. Examples are here, here and here. It’s such a maze of settings, confusing language, and opt in defaults – that all evidence indicates you’re purposely trying to disorient me – in order to get me to share more than I want to.
The Electronic Frontier Foundation shared similar thoughts this weekend. It asked its fans for a new term to describe “the act of creating deliberately confusing jargon and user-interfaces which trick your users into sharing more info about themselves than they really want to.”
Some of these were really good: “bait-and-click” (my favorite), “bait-and-phish,” “confuser-interface-design,” and “Facebaiting.” They’re going with “evil interfaces.”
In their words, “Design is difficult, and accidents do happen. But when an accident coincidentally bolsters a company’s business model at the expense of its users’ rights, it begins to look suspicious.” An evil interface “trick[s] users into doing things they don’t want to.
Now, on to Google. Google may have more data on me than the NSA, and there’s plenty of debate around its lofty claim: Don’t be evil. For example:
Debating the vices and virtues of Google
Is Google evil?
And wow, look at this commentary first published when Google launched Gmail: In Google we Trust? When the subject is email, maybe not.
But what did Google ever do to me? Aside from the Google Buzz debacle, which yes – I was admittedly miffed about but have been willing to overlook since they’ve got a pretty good track record.
It goes without saying that Google has made the web better. It’s made it faster, more relevant, and more useful. And no, Google doesn’t confuse me.
Others have already expounded on Google’s virtues. Like Louis Gray who trusts Google implicitly (Still waiting for an evil Google?). Or Chris Messina, who works for Google, extolling the virtues of an open web. Heck, Jeff Jarvis wrote an entire book about why he trusts Google (What Would Google Do?).
I dug up an old Wired article (Google v. Evil) in which the author interviews Google co-founder Sergey Brin:
One thing Brin is sure of: On the side of evil lies trickery. I ask Brin to imagine, for a moment, running his company’s evil twin, a sort of anti-Google. “We would be doing things like having advertising that wasn’t marked as being paid for. Stuff that violates the trust of the users.”
And finally, this final paragraph in the same Wired article especially resonates today in the context of Facebook’s privacy erosions:
It’s inevitable that a company of Google’s size and influence will have to compromise on purity. There’s a chance that, in five years, Google will end up looking like a slightly cleaner version of what Yahoo! has become. There’s also a chance that the site will be able to make a convincing case to investors that long-term user satisfaction trumps short-term profit. The leadership of the Internet is Sergey Brin’s to lose. For now, at least, in Google we trust.
So, when it comes down to my relationship with the two most dominant sites on the web? I trust Google a whole lot more in making decisions that are in the best interests of its users – and the internets at large.
For now, at least, in Google I trust.
Time to update this old Time magazine cover:
